[Avec]

Originally Posted by magwriter

when i care about something and a guy says, "It doesn't matter."
or when i try to talk to him he puts his hand up in my face and makes me fear that he will one day hit me just for trying to talk to him, even when he's not busy.
he often comes home tells me to shut up and grabs a beer. we don't talk the rest of the night because as i said i'm afraid he'll hit me. oh and he's also my father. can you explain why he treats me this way because i have spent most of my life blaming my self for talking too much.

Love is not supposed to hurt. Don't let anyone control your mind. This is
is a form of mental abuse. This is not right. I noticed there is a lot of
good advice given to you. Honestly.. if you feel intimidated, or threatened,
then yes you know for sure, you are not being treated like a human being.
I hope things are getting better for you.