hi, thanx 4 ur message, my mum is 81 and is diet controlled diabeties, but she is getting very confused, (i am wondering early dementia,) and she sometimes refuses to let her carers in to give her her medication, (she lives alone) she has taken it herself before but took a double dose by mistake, her mental and physical health is worrying me, which is on top of everything else i am dealing with at the mo. she has a social worker, but i am afraid that they will put her in a home,but its good to talk to someone who understands. xxx