i know a couple of people who treat this like a dating site tara is right its abuse of the room ,i have got addys of people i have got to know and i like but i would neva use the room 4 meeting its just not a safe thing to do .i have even been asked to poach for another site which i refused point blank ,i like woc its an escape world from family and home worries ,if some 1 uses the room to try and arrange meetings they should be read the riot act and warned if they continu they should be banned . i hope i have neva done anything to abuse the room which i dont believe i have .....this is a good site it would be a shame to lose it ............................pls people be aware this is not a site in which to met future girlfriends or boyfriend ......it is a site for making friends and a good 1 at that