ok no 1 beat me up here lmao..........wen i 1st came into the room i said hi and every1 sed hi bk but it took a while b4 any1 actually talked to me ,,,mmmm but then i am scarey looking lmao....all im saying is i my self am quite happy to make a point of talking to newbies and just giving em a gentle nudge into the room ,eg get emm offf for the lads or lassies if ur a guy lol,.....so my point is nothing needs to change there is always some1 in the room that will guide them in as did paulgg and marieeg with me they were fab ...................1 more point could alll the men plsssssss put thier pics on as myself and nutty realy love to perve lmao lmao