I've read/heard that a lot of men go through episodes such as this. The majority of the problems seem to be mental i.e. stress, work or money problems. Also, folk don't seem to have much time these days to just relax and chillout.

If your problem is not a joke and for real, then do have a chat with your GP. He won't laugh or ridicule you and there's a lot of help he can give you.

My respect for your openess is putting this problem here and asking for advice. And finally regarding Viagra - I've heard also that it doesn't always work, so you're not weird etc although I must admit I've never heard of ears reacting like yours!