would you sleep with ur guy friends

[Bakerboo]

Originally Posted by Barwench

Wow so all you lot slept with men you didnt like??
I think you have to be friends with a bloke before you sleep with him ffs.

What do you say to them after "like wow you were a good shag but i dont want to be friends with you"

You could really fancy a guy which is your friend and he could fancy you but you would say to him " sorry mate even though i fancy the pants of you I cant sleep with you coz your my friend!"

What a load of tosh, so you lot only have one night stands so you dont have to sleep with your friends, or sleep with someone and then become friends, then you have to break up with them coz they are now your friend hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm what a stupid way to live!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I've never had a one night stand and I never will....

[gojohnniegogo]

Originally Posted by Bakerboo

awwww bless u johnnie hun - c'mere and let baker give u a bit fat wobbly cuddle... there's plenty of room for yer head in my bosom lol

Awww thanks hun!

[Barwench]

All dates start of as a one night stand it all depends where you go from there!

[fire]

i have lots of male friends but i would not sleep with any of them

[pete8242]

i slept with dean
he was my freind
but he hurt me
in more ways than one
lmfao

[shell]

Originally Posted by gojohnniegogo

I dunno how to describe this. I avioded up to now, but meh, I'm drunk so I'll spill

This girl I dead faniced (and still do) I'd hung out with a few times and she'd showed an interest (at least thats how it seemed) anywhos after meeting on a local forum, then chatting on first Facebook then M S N, we met one day, had a good chitter chat over Sweeny Todd. After seeing her speaking to her there I thought 'forget it, she's wayyyyy out of your league laddo!' Things progressed anyway, we went to another town for a night out (she kissed me that night, and I thought there was a chance of more than friendship), met again to watch a film at mine, then another DVD at hers... then more physical stuff happened at mine the following week.. then she didnt speak to me for ages. I wandered for a few days what had happened how she felt about it etc, but she wouldn't speak to me and I was dead upset. I posted her a letter I'd written. To wich she text me 'I dont appreciate you putting letters through my door. Dunno why you think stuffs different but nothings changed' Anyway it went from that to 'leave me alone' which totally destroyed me inside. She'd instaged anything physical between the two of us. I'm still not over this and it happened in February. I still care deeply about this girl despite many friends attempts at telling me she was taking the p155. Worst things is even before we met she told me she led people on. But she said she stopped before anything happened. Which got me even more. Grrrr!!! Ah well, that was then I suppose!

Women hate to be harrased, they also hate desperation in a man ...maybe she felt ashamed of what she had done with you (the physical stuff) and wanted a cool off period, but you went at it like a bull at a gate, i know its nice to be nice but come on, please, you need to take a step back when u do " physical stuff" just because they put out, dont mean they want your babies!! also the only reason your feeling slightly miffed etc, and a bit hurt is because of.......... rejection..... no one likes it, so take a deep breath and take stock, how old are u?? as this also may imply a few things, i may start my agony aunt section again , please feel free to look under general discussion and ask anything you like, god bless, and please move on, MWAH!!

[gojohnniegogo]

Originally Posted by shell

Women hate to be harrased, they also hate desperation in a man ...maybe she felt ashamed of what she had done with you (the physical stuff) and wanted a cool off period, but you went at it like a bull at a gate, i know its nice to be nice but come on, please, you need to take a step back when u do " physical stuff" just because they put out, dont mean they want your babies!! also the only reason your feeling slightly miffed etc, and a bit hurt is because of.......... rejection..... no one likes it, so take a deep breath and take stock, how old are u?? as this also may imply a few things, i may start my agony aunt section again , please feel free to look under general discussion and ask anything you like, god bless, and please move on, MWAH!!

Hi Shell, thanks for your honesty, a few years ago reading something like this would have really gotten to me. I'm 24 by the way. We've been friends again for a while now etc, so things are ok in that respect, I've accepted we'll never be more than friends and I'm ok with that. Thanks for the advice, I leared a hell of a lot from the expeirence though (I think I'd be in real trouble if I hadn't)