would you sleep with ur guy friends

[betty b]

ok this is a follow on from the guy one....

I dont think i cud sleep with a lad i classed as a best mate..

Do gals only befriend guys caus ethey really wanna sleep with um.??

i couldnt sleep with a bloke of he was my best mate would think more of our friendship

i know u all think im a tart but i can be good!!!!!!!!!!!

no i would not , i dont belive in fook buddies , ive got tons of male friends but it doesnt mean i want to sleep with them .Altough if single and things progressed then they would be a long term partner not a friend.

[shell]

Originally Posted by betty b

ok this is a follow on from the guy one....

I dont think i cud sleep with a lad i classed as a best mate..

Do gals only befriend guys caus ethey really wanna sleep with um.??

No i couldn't sleep with a fella i was mates with first, its akward, my last boyfriend was me mate first, and it didnt work out for various reasons, but thank god we still are good friends, i can imagine in certain situations that this isnt the case and not only have you lost a potential b/f you have also lost a mate too, so in answer to your question my answer is no

[skyblue]

Originally Posted by betty b

I dont think i cud sleep with a lad i classed as a best mate..

betty.....repeat this over and over......skyblues not my friend

[jaydee]

i couldn't sleep with someone i considered a friend it wouldn't feel right and as shell said if it don't work out you lose a friend as well as a potential b/f....to be honest it's not worth the hassle....stay friends it's easier

[Bakerboo]

I slept with a male friend nearly 20 yrs ago - and he's been my best friend ever since... and I know that it'll be that way forever, much as he does my swede in sometimes lol

In fact, most of my partners were friends first.

Now I'll sit back and wait for shaz's reply.....

[Barwench]

Wow so all you lot slept with men you didnt like??
I think you have to be friends with a bloke before you sleep with him ffs.

What do you say to them after "like wow you were a good shag but i dont want to be friends with you"

You could really fancy a guy which is your friend and he could fancy you but you would say to him " sorry mate even though i fancy the pants of you I cant sleep with you coz your my friend!"

What a load of tosh, so you lot only have one night stands so you dont have to sleep with your friends, or sleep with someone and then become friends, then you have to break up with them coz they are now your friend hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm what a stupid way to live!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[gojohnniegogo]

I dunno how to describe this. I avioded up to now, but meh, I'm drunk so I'll spill

This girl I dead faniced (and still do) I'd hung out with a few times and she'd showed an interest (at least thats how it seemed) anywhos after meeting on a local forum, then chatting on first Facebook then M S N, we met one day, had a good chitter chat over Sweeny Todd. After seeing her speaking to her there I thought 'forget it, she's wayyyyy out of your league laddo!' Things progressed anyway, we went to another town for a night out (she kissed me that night, and I thought there was a chance of more than friendship), met again to watch a film at mine, then another DVD at hers... then more physical stuff happened at mine the following week.. then she didnt speak to me for ages. I wandered for a few days what had happened how she felt about it etc, but she wouldn't speak to me and I was dead upset. I posted her a letter I'd written. To wich she text me 'I dont appreciate you putting letters through my door. Dunno why you think stuffs different but nothings changed' Anyway it went from that to 'leave me alone' which totally destroyed me inside. She'd instaged anything physical between the two of us. I'm still not over this and it happened in February. I still care deeply about this girl despite many friends attempts at telling me she was taking the p155. Worst things is even before we met she told me she led people on. But she said she stopped before anything happened. Which got me even more. Grrrr!!! Ah well, that was then I suppose!

[Bakerboo]

Originally Posted by gojohnniegogo

I dunno how to describe this. I avioded up to now, but meh, I'm drunk so I'll spill

This girl I dead faniced (and still do) I'd hung out with a few times and she'd showed an interest (at least thats how it seemed) anywhos after meeting on a local forum, then chatting on first Facebook then M S N, we met one day, had a good chitter chat over Sweeny Todd. After seeing her speaking to her there I thought 'forget it, she's wayyyyy out of your league laddo!' Things progressed anyway, we went to another town for a night out (she kissed me that night, and I thought there was a chance of more than friendship), met again to watch a film at mine, then another DVD at hers... then more physical stuff happened at mine the following week.. then she didnt speak to me for ages. I wandered for a few days what had happened how she felt about it etc, but she wouldn't speak to me and I was dead upset. I posted her a letter I'd written. To wich she text me 'I dont appreciate you putting letters through my door. Dunno why you think stuffs different but nothings changed' Anyway it went from that to 'leave me alone' which totally destroyed me inside. She'd instaged anything physical between the two of us. I'm still not over this and it happened in February. I still care deeply about this girl despite many friends attempts at telling me she was taking the p155. Worst things is even before we met she told me she led people on. But she said she stopped before anything happened. Which got me even more. Grrrr!!! Ah well, that was then I suppose!

awwww bless u johnnie hun - c'mere and let baker give u a bit fat wobbly cuddle... there's plenty of room for yer head in my bosom lol