can a guy only be friends with some one he wants to sleep with?

[gojohnniegogo]

Originally Posted by gizmo26

gogo u r the most dirty minded johnnie i know!!!!u just cant help urself can u?

Dirty minded? Moi!? I've never been called that before!

Of Course They Can, I, Like Many Men...'prob?' Have Sleptand Cuddled With Female Friends Without Having Sex, Dun't Mean You Don't Wanna! Just Self Control Is Important, Some Lines R Not 4 Crossing.

[dazz69]

iv got many female friends an i dont wanna sleep wiv them, they are my friends yea ok i do fancy sum of them sum times but ya dont cross that line unless ya both want to take it further,,bed buddies so to speak if ya jus wanna av a bit of fun or take it a stage further an start seein each other,,its all down to ya own mind an choice. yea sum ppl will say they only want to be friends but ya no they jus wanna get ya into bed.. infact sum of the best women iv been wiv started out as friends..but thats jus me i dont feel the need to sleep wiv every woman i meet im not a teenager any more..lol

[barnowluk]

I prefer female company to males but that does not mean I want to sleep with them. I have loads of female friends

[riffraff]

I think it's like Chris Rock said: you start off trying to smash, and if after a certain amount of time you don't hit, consider yourself in "The Friend Zone". But I have plenty of lady friends who I haven't smashed.


Yet.

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[Finn]

yes this is true

[emm26]

of course they can i have got 2 very special male friends well one now as one passed away few months back but at end of day i could always trust them we grew up together shared happy times n sad times together would b lost if i ever lost that friendship

[barney]

Totally agree. Males only have female friends if they fancy them. They might try and be friends, but give guys half a chance and look out......unless your a minger of course and then you will have loads of bloke friends

[lynx59]

yeah course..... women can be friends with a man without wanting to go to bed with him, so it should in theory work the other way around, whether it does is up to the individual in question, i have several male friends granted a couple of them i would love to snuggle under a duvet with.....doesnt mean im going to,
and a couple have said they would like to take things further with me, but they know i am very happy with my fella so they do not go further than some flirting, and that's the way it's staying, it's a matter of what is in charge at the time your upper anatomy ie your brain or lower anatomy, and that goes for women as well

[Claudia]

I have to say that many guy friends have tried at least once with me - even a best friend since junior school!!

I put it down to teen hormones though! I think (hope) that they change as we get older!! It gets frustrating!!