ASL request

[littleguru]

i like to know ASL and if L is listed as country, that's fine. I am always courteous to say hello or welcome to any in chats. If they do not want to chat, and I don't understand why one would enter a chat room and not chat, it is still they're decision. If someone ignores me for a chat, then i continue to chat with other woccers. Whatever admins decide, I will respect it!

Originally Posted by childlike_creature

i think u are an arrogant git to say that ppl should give out their asl. ppl are entitled to their privacy

When people come in the room they are asked their asl one to break the ice,and two because it is an 18 and over chat.Its not arrogant or rude.

Originally Posted by littleguru

i like to know ASL and if L is listed as country, that's fine. I am always courteous to say hello or welcome to any in chats. If they do not want to chat, and I don't understand why one would enter a chat room and not chat, it is still they're decision. If someone ignores me for a chat, then i continue to chat with other woccers. Whatever admins decide, I will respect it!

i agree if people dont want to talk 2 u that is thier choice ,but then wot is the point of coming into a chat room ,u may as well find a room that says silent watching lol . i dont mean to be harsh but i know mazzy, who comes in the room and doesnt type so fast so there 4 doesnt often get a word in but yet still continues to try and talk .......why ????because its a CHAT room lol .......anyhow this is only my personal opinion and i dont wish to offend anyone at all ....by the way guru how are ya mate hope ur well xx

Originally Posted by sweetness

When people come in the room they are asked their asl one to break the ice,and two because it is an 18 and over chat.Its not arrogant or rude.

that is also wot i think sweets ,its just a way to invite them into the conversation and to break the ice ,although people can lie about thier age it doesnt take long to work that out im sure you will agree ......also to call someone rude or arrogant is rude and arrogant aswel in itself ,in my humble opinion lol .....................hi sweets hunni hope your well xxxx

[Barwench]

if i get asked by newbies my asl i ignor them, thats coz i dont think its there business and i cant be assed to answer them lmao

[betty b]

Originally Posted by childlike_creature

i think u are an arrogant git to say that ppl should give out their asl. ppl are entitled to their privacy

As its not a dating site, its not to eye you up its manily for admin use .. Also we get some early teens in unaware its 18+room(mabe they carnt read numbers or summert as it says it every were)but when asked there asl and if they reply 13 or 16 then there asked to leave....The rules are there for our safety am not debating them, its a free site and its a good clean room, i come in for the fun love and friendship i get from people.
When i was new i was asked my asl, and i was made very very welcome,i have nothing to hide so i had no worrys to say that my asl is 32 f lincs... what harm as that doen to me.!!! wasnt hard was it.
ITs differant stroks for differant folks.

[Swifty89]

Originally Posted by childlike_creature

i think u are an arrogant git to say that ppl should give out their asl. ppl are entitled to their privacy

i has more to worry about with privacy given past activities than you will ever have.
but i have no problems so why should u?

[littleguru]

Originally Posted by baloney

i agree if people dont want to talk 2 u that is thier choice ,but then wot is the point of coming into a chat room ,u may as well find a room that says silent watching lol . i dont mean to be harsh but i know mazzy, who comes in the room and doesnt type so fast so there 4 doesnt often get a word in but yet still continues to try and talk .......why ????because its a CHAT room lol .......anyhow this is only my personal opinion and i dont wish to offend anyone at all ....by the way guru how are ya mate hope ur well xx

hey baloney! ty things are fine! been studying of late and not able to get to chat much. How r u luv?

[bonky]

Originally Posted by sweetness

When people come in the room they are asked their asl one to break the ice,and two because it is an 18 and over chat.Its not arrogant or rude.

u go girl your not arrogant r u bit crazy tho lol

Originally Posted by Warren2008

Hello to all WOC chatters,

It has been noticed that when ppl come in the room, admin or hosts ask for their asl, some off them either don't reply to it or gives it out straight away.

Is it something that we can resolve by formally warning them that if they don't give out there contact information that they get a warning, if then they still don't give it to the admin or hosts, we can then speak to them in private to resolve the situation.

If this still persists then we should give them a ban for at least a couple of hours.

What do you think we should do about it ?

sorry but i think after going through the proccess of becoming a registered member i shouldn't be forced to answer these questions that i already have. i hate when guys get pushy in the chat room asking for asl. they need to back off it makes me feel like a piece of meat. if you want me to answer this question every time someone asks for it then maybe i shouldn't come here.